Day 328/365: Selfless Love of Lola Ising.

Day 328/365: Selfless Love of Lola Ising.

November 25, 2011

Today, I remember Lola Ising. She is one of those grandmother who truly care for me and watch me over my growing years when I used to live in Malabon. A woman who never had her own child but cares for her husband and his children which she consider as her own too. A woman where her heart is immeasurable by the love she offered throughout the years. An inspiring selfless love.

As you join hand with our Lord. I pray that you found the eternal peace and I will never forget your care as I carry it with my own family and live a life of love of Lola Ising.

Here’s a beautiful prayer for you Lola Ising.

Thank you for the gift of love,
now you’re sharing it up above.
You had many things to say.
All in a caring way.
You always saw good in everyone,
No matter what they’ve done.
You were always the one we could all lean on.
Even though it must have felt like a ton.
You were always the strength of the family.
Now we must let you rest calmly.
As we say goodbye,
as tears roll down our eyes.
I know your place in heaven has a good view.
Because you’re telling God,
I need to keep an eye on a few.
I know you will always be in our hearts and mind.
So Lola Ising,
I must go, but I’ll never forget you’re one of a kind.




This picture was taken in Floresco Funeral Homes in Concepcion Malabon. Sitting beside me is my favorite Aunt. Tita Yolly.

Suggested Funeral Wake Donation aside from Cash – Sweet Donuts like Mister Donut 🙂

Day 91/365: Mass Card Offering

Day 91/365: Mass Card Offering

April 1, 2011

This is the last wake day of my Kuya and I’m very Thankful for those who have offered prayers and sent mass cards.

What is a Mass Card and How Are Mass Cards Used?

A Mass card, also known as a Mass offering card, memorial card or a remembrance card, is a greeting card given to someone to let them know that they, or a deceased loved-one, will be remembered and prayed for in the intentions at a Mass.

The card-giver will obtain a Mass offering card, either from their local parish or by purchasing one from a store. Some religious orders also support their monasteries by offering Mass cards.

If the card-giver goes directly to the parish office, they may obtain a card there, give his or her offering (a donation), and the Mass will be offered for his or her intention. He or she will then give the card to the recipient, which lets the recipient know that he or she or a deceased family member, or some other intention, will be prayed for at the Mass.  On the other hand, the card-giver may instead purchase a card from a store, contact a parish to give the offering and make arrangements for the Mass to be offered for his or her intentions, and then give the card to the recipient.

Why Offer a Mass for a Person or Intention?

“The grace of mutual love among the living, strengthened and increased by the sacrament of the Eucharist, flows, especially by virtue of the Sacrifice [of the Mass], to all who belong to the communion of saints.

For the communion of saints is simply the mutual sharing of help, atonement, prayers and benefits among the faithful, those already in the heavenly fatherland, those consigned to the purifying fire, and those still making their pilgrim way here on earth. These all form one city, whose head is Christ, and whose vital principle is love.

Faith teaches that although the august Sacrifice can be offered to God alone, it can nevertheless be celebrated in honor of the saints now reigning in Heaven with God, who has crowned them, to obtain their intercession for us, and also, according to apostolic tradition, to wash away the stains of those brethren who died in the Lord but without yet being wholly purified.”

– From the 1902 encyclical Mirae caritatis of Pope Leo XIII

Day 91/365

Occasions for Offering Mass and Giving Mass Cards

The most common occasion for offering a Mass is for the repose of a departed soul. This tradition began quite early in the Church, as there are epitaphs on tombs as early as the 2nd century, which beg for prayers for the deceased person; and the Canons of Hippolytus, from the first half of the 3rd century, mention the offering of prayers for the dead at Mass. The saints and early church fathers spoke of remembering the dead at the Mass, and encouraged the faithful pray for those who had died. Mothers Day and Christmas are also popular occasions for offering Mass, and any time when you have a special intention to offer.